As I am not religious, I have always thought I didn't have Christmas Rituals and I don't, not for the 25th December persé, but somewhere around that time I do celebrate Winter Solstice and I must admit that I have very pinickity rituals for the decorations.
Every year around September I say that I won't put up any decorations, much to Bert's delight, little does he know what goes on in my head (probably he does, but doesn't want to jinx or provoke))
By the time November arrives, I have changed my mind umpteen times.
The weekend after December 6th, Bert and I will go out to buy a christmas tree, me prodding him on.
He will say "Let's get a fake one, eh" I will ignore or pretend I didn't hear that. or if I am in awful mood (it happens) I will give him a mouthful of mild abuse.
He knows what is coming. I am very, very peculiar in choosing a tree : as large as we can fit into the sitting room, a perfect shape, beautiful branches, no spruce, but a noble fir or something like that. It means I have handled almost every tree that is for sale and if I cannot find it in one place, we'll be off to the next. Meanwhile I'll ask Bert to hold the tree upright, turning it, so I can see from a little distance if it will do.
The man who sells the trees is already scratching his head and tuttuting loudly.
I complain that the tall trees don't have roots on them.
When I have finaly found one, it is loaded onto the roof rack of the car and off we go.
We get home, we haul the tree inside, try to fit it into place, propping it up, tying it to whatever. Is it facing the right way ? etc, etc. By that time dear Bert is really fed up with all that pallaver and he lets me unpack all the christmas decorations. Ooooh, I have about 20 sets of fairy lights, all tangled up, only 2 working. I only like white lights,the non blinking ones. The last task I can make Bert do is untangle the fairy lights and then I'm on my own. I lovingly decorate the tree, the first christmas CD of the year playing, a glass of port, or two. I am so shattered at the end of it. I'll tidy up tomorrow.Gradually I will add more greenery and foliage to the house and then it's christmas.Lovely 
We've always had people around for the festive season : friends, relatives, volunteers (wwoofers). A full house means a lot of cooking and do I love anything better than feeding people ?
This year it will be different.
After 22 years with Bert I have finally succumbed to an artificial christmas tree and isn't it a beauty !?
I won't be cooking for hours (days) on end to get the perfect meal, in stead we have been invited to friends for christmas dinner.
Ding Dong
Well, coming back to edit this post and scrap the last line.
Looks like I will be cooking afterall, for 8 people (of which 3 vegetarians) on the 26th. Better start planning the menu, methinks. 1o days to go !
The Ding Dong still stands.
The Ding Dong still stands.
Een prachtboom heb je!
ReplyDeleteHet ging bij ons een beetje hetzelfde als bij jullie: tot voor twee jaar heb ik altijd geroepen 'een kunstboom komt hier niet in huis'. En zie wat er staat ...
I was going to say that you will have to think of me because I will be cooking the dinner for hours on end, but then I saw the bit you added at the end, lol!
ReplyDeleteI have vegetarians to cook for too, and I haven't planned what yet...